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Types of Domestic Abuse

We tend to think of Domestic Abuse as physical violence or assault on a wife. In reality, however, domestic abuse is the summary of physically, sexually and psychologically abusive behaviours directed by one partner against another, regardless of their marital status or gender. Generally, when one form of abuse exists, it is coupled with other forms as well.

Domestic Abuse does not just affect people of a certain race, age, gender or background, but knows no ethnic, cultural or personal borders.

Domestic abuse may also be defined by identifying its function, that being the domination, punishment or control of one's partner. Abusers use physical and sexual violence, threats, money, emotional and psychological abuse to control their partners and get their way.

Sometimes Domestic Abuse is better understood by it's effect on the victim than by the specific actions of the abuser.

Abuse in the home is not a rare problem, it is just rarely admitted as one.

Check out the Wheel of Power and Control, which provides a visual representation of the interconnection of the differing forms of abuse.


Next: Physical Abuse

In This Section:

Types of Abuse
Physical Abuse
Sexual Abuse
Emotional Abuse
Verbal Abuse
Financial Abuse
Abuse Examples

Related Pages:

Wheel of Power and Control
Domestic Violence Overview
Marital Rape


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  1) a push for a quick relationship..

 2)jealous & possciveness

3)tries to control your life

4)unrealisticic excpections

5)blames others for thier problems&mistakes

6)isolates you from friends &family

7)makes everuone ecse responsible

for thier feelings

8)says thier feeling are hurt easily.

9)cruel to anmales and children

10)playful force during sex

11) yells and calls you names

12)ridgid sex rolls

13)sudden mood swings

14 )telling you that if you would only

do as he says he wouldnt be forced to hit you

15) its his job to teach you how to be a wife

16) he makes the rules

17) its his way or the highway

18) accusing always of cheating

19) always checking your emails and phone calls comming in

an going out

20)history of beating a ex wife or girlfriend

21 )hates his mother

22) telling you what to ware

23)threats of violence


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Posted on 03:42PM on Jul 1st, 2009
you know Lunnas, I think this is a good way to make other women aware of domestic violence! =) thank you for the post
Posted on 05:16PM on Jul 1st, 2009
I wrote the blog from my life and i wanted to help others men too
Posted on 09:10PM on Jul 18th, 2009
Nice post ! Unfortunately some women see the signs and ignore them .
Posted on 05:38PM on Jul 19th, 2009
yeah the syngs where there for me years ago but i was too young to see them i hope that more people will read this blog ty 4 ur coments
Posted on 05:56PM on Jul 19th, 2009
Damn! If that doesn't cover all the bases, I don't know what will! BRAVA, lunnas!
Posted on 12:16AM on Jul 20th, 2009
yes its called verbal abuse, there also is sexul abuse, mental abuse there are so many abuses i'll post more
Posted on 05:52AM on Jul 20th, 2009
If an action is physically or psychologically deleterious to the well-being of the person receiving that action, it amounts to abuse ... PERIOD.
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